| 'Partners from Heaven and Hell' BOOK 1 - THE 1st AND 2nd DIMENSIONS |
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| "Study of attitudes and moods using 'levels of aggression' (1st Dimension) and 'levels of self-esteem (2nd Dimension) is the first step in understanding why people think and behave as they do and why they treat others in such different ways." |
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| "To simply use male and female stereotypes when considering relationships seems to be a gross error. Use of the 'Moodgrid' shows that there are at least 'nine types of men' and 'nine types of woman' exhibiting very different levels of selflessness and supportive behaviour. There are therefore at least 81 ever-changing permutations to consider during the classification of partnerships." |
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| 'Partners from Heaven and Hell' is the first book of the trilogy using the 'Moodgrid' . It tries to assist a lay person to comprehend a series of issues about the use of mood theory as applied specifically to Relationships. Very little jargon is used and the information is presented in a series of easy steps. It is hoped that by reading this book, someone with no previous knowledge of 'Psychology' will begin to appreciate how attitude analysis and applied mood theory can revolutionise one's way of not only thinking about oneself, but also types of other people, relationships and life in general. READING A MAP! If you can read a map, then you can use the 'grid'! This book uses the simple concept of the basic two-dimensional psychometric 'grid' to discuss how levels of Aggression (X) and Self-esteem (Y) can be related to types of Mood and Personality. A picture is worth 'a thousand words' and some colour illustrations by Edmund Dulac of certain key interpersonal interactions have been inserted to complement the text. ATTITUDES AND ZONES The way that one's 'attitudes' change according to one's location on the grid is described in some detail. A decimal system is used to enhance precision of thinking and specific directions of change are also considered. The grid is then divided into three main zones namely Ultra (UZ), Intermediate (IZ) and Neutral (NZ). The adjacent illustration however also shows the three sub-zones for each of the main Zones where self-esteem is either high (H), Medium (M) or Low (L). Each of these sub-zones is examined in some detail, including not only the attitudes and moods involved, but also then what this means for a given person's dealings with others in many spheres of life. The emphasis of this book however is upon classifying inter-personal interactions and relationships. Following the theme of 'sanity' once again, around the edges of the grid can be seen two further rectangles which represent thoughts firstly 'beyond reason' and secondly 'beyond reality'. These concepts are introduced in PHH but expanded upon in the other two books. PERSONALITY TYPES The main personality types are summarised here. The 'Nine Moods of Man' have already been described on the Home page but this diagram shows the main attributes for each of the new corners of the Moodgrid. These include the 'Tyrant' (UZH), The 'Hero' (NZH), The 'Slave' (NZL) and The 'Cynic' (UZL). They each have their own set of attitudes as shown, including not only their attitudes to relationships and hierarchies, but also their personal philosophies and their reactions to stress. In addition there are those people who 'inhabit' the ''Box' in the centre of the grid, who by definition are the most 'balanced' individuals of all. This box also represents the Mood of 'Calm' and the attribute of 'Ambivalence'. COMPATIBILITIES Once self-esteem is taken into account there are then 9 types of men and 9 types of women to consider, rather than the single male and female stereotypes so often described. Discussions in the book lead to the conclusion that there are therefore 81 ever-changing permutations and combinations of interaction between the sexes to consider. Compatibilities, stability of relationships and various other partnership issues are therefore discussed in this context. The quality of relationship for each type of pairing is then discussed, including the effects of Mood swings and their consequences. The effects upon relationships is summarised in the adjacent diagram. Along the diagonal from top-right to bottom left on the grid lies the Love - Hate axis. From top-left to bottom right runs the 'Dominance - Submission axis. As such, movements along these axes tend to have dramatic consequences as shown for the relationships involved. Jargon has been kept to a minimum in PHH, but considerable detail with regard to such multi-dimensional attitudinal analysis is included in the general discussion. An alphabetical summary of 'grid-speak' is also included in the book as well as some light-hearted personal assessment questionnaires in the manner of popular magazines. MEN AND WOMEN It is becoming increasingly realised that at least 10% of men tend to think like women and vice versa. Issues of sexuality make up a significant and highly important part of the book. Once again, not much jargon is used, but perhaps enough to improve understanding of the many differences and similarities between men and women. |
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| HISTORICAL BACKGROUND AND IMPORTANT FIGURES The grid, as described, was inspired firstly by ancient philosophy, which has often sought to understand human nature by considering extreme and even opposing attitudes. Aristotle, in his well-known book on 'Ethics', describes one of the earliest recorded attempts at comparing and measuring human attitudes. His method was to analyse attitudes by giving them 'high', 'medium' or 'low' values of a certain attribute. However, the proposed assessments were only made on rather basic conceptual scales and therefore could not easily be related to observed changes in Mood. The 'moodgrid' has also been partly derived from the original circular 'mood diagram' conceived by Hans Eysenck, a famous 20th Century London Psychologist. His diagram, although widely reported and highly sensible in terms of starting to think about psychometrics in two dimensions, unfortunately never became popular. In retrospect, this may have been partly due to a general misunderstanding of some of the terms he used at the time. |
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| Hans Eysenck |
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| IMPORTANT NOTICE THE BOOK 'PHH' DOES STAND ON IT'S OWN WITH COLOUR PRINT ILLUSTRATIONS. HOWEVER, IT IS STRONGLY RECOMMENDED THAT PERSONS CONSIDERING THE PURCHASE OF THIS BOOK MOVE ON TO LOOK AT THE NEXT PAGE DESCRIBING THE BOOK 'ATTITUDES, MOODS AND INSIGHT'. MOST OF THE RELEVANT PARTS OF 'PHH' ARE SUMMARISED IN THE FIRST PART OF 'AMI' BEFORE MOVING ON TO DISCUSS THE 3RD (Insight) AND 4TH DIMENSIONS (Time). 'AMI' HOWEVER DOES NOT CONTAIN THE DULAC ILLUSTRATIONS AND CONTAINS MANY MORE MATHEMATICAL FORMS |
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